Stopping a Tic in its Tracks: A Mother’s Mission
This inspiring letter was received by Sheila Rogers DeMare, director of ACN, from a mother in Ohio.
My son Cole had a brief experience with an eye-blinking tic at age five, and happily we saw no more tics for about three years. Then, a neck tic surfaced with a vengeance. My beautiful son was jerking his neck over a thousand times a day. Day after day after day. I took him to his pediatrician in search of relief. He suggested standard medication to subdue the tics. But, like many parents, I had read up on the side-effects of these strong drugs and declined. I had seen the Latitudes.org website and wanted to try other approaches without drugs.
I ordered your book, Natural Treatments for Tics and Tourettes. I was so anxious for help that when it arrived I read it in one day. I started many of the modifications you recommended right away, and would like to share the positive results we have had.
Rather than experiment with one approach and then another, we made significant changes all at once, hoping that later we could find out which ones were the most important for Cole, and then we could loosen up on those things he could tolerate.
Step One: Making the changes
- His diet: I immediately changed his diet. We eliminated all wheat and dairy products. This included cheese, one of his favorite foods. I also decided to eliminate his daily “Juicy Juice” and all kinds of sweets — these are things he really loves. (Editor: While Juicy Juice does not have added sweeteners, 8-ounces contains 26 grams of natural sugar; further, some kids may be sensitive to specific fruits in the drink.) No artificial sweeteners, colors or flavoring were permitted, and all other chemical additives were also cut out.
- Toxins and odors: I did my best to eliminate Cole’s exposure to strong odors, for example scented candles (one of my favorite things!), chemical cleaners, smoke from outside fires or grills, etc.
- Hand sanitizer: After reading your book I realized the use of Cole’s hand sanitizer had to stop. We’d been applying it frequently because of the swine flu scare. We had started using it shortly before his neck tics began.
- TV and Video: We undertook the biggest challenge here: no TV or video games, period. Cole had the most trouble with this one! Like other boys his age, he loves TV and video games of all sorts. But I talked to him about the modifications and he was willing to do whatever it took to try and stop the neck tic.
Results
The first morning, with the modified diet and no TV or video games, he did not tic one time. By 3:30 in the afternoon, the tics started up but they were not as frequent. I will be honest, I was shocked that the changes we had made worked so quickly. Some clues as to why this may have happened: Cole’s typical morning included Juicy Juice, pancakes and maple syrup with artificial ingredients, and time with the TV and games. Cutting these all out together made a difference right away.
The next day Cole told me that he only noticed his neck tic about 15 times.
Each day the symptoms tapered off until by day eight the tic was completely gone.
Step Two: Checking for the triggers
Of course, we didn’t want to stay on this strict system forever if we didn’t have to. I started adding foods back into his diet one at a time to watch for any reaction. First bread, then cheese, etc. We have been able to broaden Cole’s diet, but he still does not drink Juicy Juice, and he is hardly allowed any sugary foods. I keep dairy to a minimum. TV and video games are allowed for limited time periods. I have added more protein to his diet and reduced the carbs. I am also incorporating more nutritious foods such as almonds and vegetables, and am focusing on magnesium-rich foods. And we continue to avoid all artificial additives.
I will never again use strong chemicals or candles in my house.
We went more than three weeks with no tics at all. I was so happy I can’t even begin to tell you.
Step Three: A birthday test
Well, soon after this exciting progress it was Cole’s birthday. For a celebration, and without giving it a lot of thought, I planned a trip to an indoor water park. As soon as we walked in and I smelled the strong chlorine and other pool chemicals I knew it had been a mistake. I didn’t want to ruin his special day by leaving. Instead, I just tried to minimize his time in the water, focusing on rides and other activities at the indoor park. But there was no getting around it, the chemical exposure was significant. On top of this, I let him enjoy sugary treats and dairy products — some regular party foods.
I thought we’d gotten away with our adventure, but it wasn’t long before he started rubbing his eyes and complaining that they felt “heavy.” A mild eye tic started up in one eye; most people would not have noticed it. Back at home, I knew I had to tighten up on his diet again and we did. It’s been one week now since the party and the eye tic has almost completely subsided.
This experience helped confirm my understanding of how triggers can affect tics. I know the pattern of tics has not been a coincidence or simply “waxing and waning” as some say.
My son has had chemical sensitivities and allergies for many years. Before reading the Tics and Tourette’s book, I would never have guessed these conditions could have been connected to the tics he has experienced.
In Closing
My heart goes out to every child with a tic disorder, and to every mother and father who has to watch their child go through this pain. Someday soon I hope that Tourette’s and tics will be eliminated for everyone.
While we all search for the day when no child has to worry about the next tic, I will be praying for peace, peace for the children and for their families.
Name and actual image were withheld at the family’s request.
I am 20 years old and I was diagnosed with Tourette syndrome at age 5. For the most part I have learned to hide or even control most of my tics. Most people wont even notice it unless I tell them I have it. My tics come and go but the one that has never gone away is my eye tic where I blink very hard and it gives me a headache. I think I will try some of these remedies and see if they work for me because i am not one of the lucky people who grow out of there Tourette syndrome.
Kiersten, Thank you for sharing this with us. It must be tough to have such a strong eye tic–both for the headaches it causes and for the visual disruption.
We would be very interested to know how you do with trying some of the approaches. Please let us know if we can be of any help. Wishing you all the best! Sheila
My son is 10 and has severe verbal tics where his words are very drawn out with every few words he tries to say. At times, he can spell the word out really quickly before he can say it because he knows what he wants to say, yet it won’t come out. His ears move up and down on their own, he will have grunting and a sound of gasping for air at times, he moves his eyes to the side at times, sometimes it is his jaw that uncontrollably is getting shifted throughout the day and that causes ulcer type sores in the back of his gums.
Sometimes it is his whole head twitching. These all started just after his dad passed away in 2010. He has been put on clonodine, usually prescribed for blood pressure and Adderall for his ADD, which is also supposed to help with tics.
Both those medications make him a crabby zombie and don’t really help him. His diet is horrible and video games are constant. We have a swimming pool so he is around the chlorine too.
I want to try diet change. Can someone direct me to a diet proven to help with tics or give me good tips on meals? He usually eats cereal and milk for breakfast. I need to change it up now…
I hate seeing my son be so helpless!! It is my job to take care of him!Is Lactaid brand milk okay since that is lactose free? Please, any diet tips would be great. He has also put on a lot if weight the past few years, so diet change will be good!!
Please give me advice if you can help at all! Thank you in advance from the bottom of my heart!
Hello
The best advise is to get a copy of Natural Treatments for tics and Tourette’s.
Slowly you can make the changes that have to be done in his diet. Good luck, I wish you the best. Be patient.
Thank you for sharing this inspiring story. We are just starting out on our search for help, and I’m wondering, did you eliminate all dairy, or did you try goat cheese/milk instead?
Please let me know how I can cure my severe autistic non verbal adhd/ tics and Tourette syndromes child. I live in Baton Rouge. Thank you for any advice that can be helpful.
Hello, Sherlita, You are surely dealing with a lot, with a severely autistic child. Before we try to come up with some ideas that might help out a bit, could you please tell us how old your child is?
Hi Thanks for sharing your story.As soon as I recognised my 9:year old daughter’s tics I was devestated.It started with eye blinking and eye rolling but I just thought it was a habit but then she started a vocal tic.Sort of throat clearing.We went to our GP and he said don’t worry it’s so commen in young children and that he had tics as a child and is now fine.
I was not convinced and started researching I got the book natural treatments for tics and tourettes and it has really been useful although reading some stories left me quite scared about my daughter’s future.
We went to see a naturopath and did so e allergy tests.She has a intolerance to dairy sugar and msg so we took her off cow’s milk I limit sugar and no corn syrup at all or msg.Her tics did calm down but we have had several different ones that come and go.
The naturopath out her on Magnesium vitamin b12 panonthenatic acid multi vitamin fish oil and probiotic.
The last 8 weeks she has had a vocal tic that is a sort of yelp that is causing her embarrassment and at times a sore throat.
I am now trying l carnintine and elderberry syrup extra magnesium and magnesium spray and taken away the fish oil and probiotic.
I am hoping it helps.I read all the time I try to keep her diet as clean as I can but sometimes I feel like I am going round in circles.
Our private health care will not pay for any tests or treatment as they do not recognize tics as an illness.
I want to test her for metal poisoning and nutrition deficiency but can’t afford it yet.
I am determined to help her and not let this ruin her life.
I think she has TS but no diagnosis yet.
HI Meekslp, It seems your nutritionist has given you some good suggestions, and we hope your daughter is soon better. It makes sense to stay off the dairy, reduce sugars, and avoid msg–good. I would like to offer that you might want to be sure you do not switch approaches around too quickly (unless the naturopath recommends it) .Just as examples, there is usually no need to stop giving probiotics–it can be a long-term approach. And magnesium can take time to make a difference, when it is needed. Also, you haven’t mentioned about environmental issues — like allergies or chemicals.
Do you think there was any change around the time that the vocal tics started up? Focusing on diet and nutrients is important, but it can take so much attention that we forget about our surroundings. Have you had a chance to go “unscented” at home? Also has she had an infection–you mention a sore throat. Were you able to get her throat checked? Hopefully that is something that would be covered by insurance! We know supplements can get expensive. Please keep in touch and let us know how you make out.