Need some help

[san70]

love nfp,

 

Thanks for the advice. My ds is only 8 1/2 so I guess the best is yet to come in terms of attitude! I can see what you are saying in terms of disconnecting because when I have tried to walk away, he says no, don't leave, I want to talk to you but then continues with his nastiness. He is trying to pull me in. I do feel like I am constantly on alert so as to not set him off. I just hate the example that he sets for my other 2 kids. The 5 year old often mimics things that he says. However,he also copies some of the wonderful things my oldest does, too.

 

What is the Total Transformation CD that you mentioned?

 

San

[love_nfp]

Here is the Total Transformation website: http://www.thetotaltransformation.com/ My friend bought the program and she loaned me one of the cd's.

[faith]

love,

.... could you tell us the answers to these from your link above?

 

 

"If you say these words, he'll stop arguing".

 

"10 words to say when he gets mouthy"

 

 

 

Thanks

Faith

[san70]

So, my ds's tooth finally came out this am with the help of my dh. Of course, I would have loved to have seen an immediate change in his vocals, I did not. However, today was unusual. Too many variables to take into account. Also, he has several other loose teeth, though none like this one. I will see what the next several days bring and hope for a decrease. His neck tics were pretty intense today. We went to an amusement park today and my ds does have anxiety about getting lost among other things and there are so many stimuli at amusement parks so I am hoping that over the next few days, I see a decrease. I am trying to stay positive...