Hi there,
I am a special education teacher, and from what you described it sounds like your son has signs of a learning disability. I am in the process of researching several alternative therapy programs that have had success in perm. reversing these kinds of problems. My goal is to eventually become certified and then go into private practice. At any rate here are a few that I know of:
Handle Institute, National Academy of Child Development,(NACD), The National Institute For Learning Development, The Dore Program, and PACE. I would suggest once you have your son evaluated enroll him in one of these programs. The school system is only going to give him a work sheet and a strategy. In the long run that is really not that helpful.
