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Our son attended school during first grade, the latter part of first grade was when he started developing tics that could not be ignored (that's when we went to the neurologist). I homeschooled him during second grade. His tics were so bad then, that I kept him pretty sheltered. He had a couple of friends he played with whom I don't think noticed anything out of the ordinary. When you've got a couple of boys playing they can get pretty rambunctious and alot of what he did was probably perceived as "playing" or being "silly". It is a little bit easier to diguise that way rather than in a classroom setting, especailly at that age. Our son didn't seem to be able to supress his tics out in public.
This year because he is doing so much better I have him signed up for martial arts, he takes piano and we have a wonderful homeschool program in our area that offers really neat classes- so he's exposed to a lot of kids. I'm keeping him busy. When he went back to school this year the class was covering things he allready learned last year with me. So this year I'm much more relaxed about his academics. Not that I'm slacking or anything, but I realized we have a lot more time to focus on his interests. I pretty much went with the same curriculum his school was using. And best of all I'm in complete control of what goes into his little body. I just feel like I need to do this for a while.
When I said that I've learned through hard lessons not to ignore my gut feeling I can think back to when he was as little as 4 and some behaviors bothered me. In my heart of hearts I didn't feel at ease, but everyone around me including his pediatrician kept tellilng me that they were just phases. When I took him to his doctor for eye blinking I was told that it was allergies, but I didn't feel good about that answer. Had I have known what I know now and brought to a natural physicin then all of this may have been a distant memory. I am fully convinced that his last set of immunizations (2 months before the onset of major tics) was the straw that broke the camels back. He had a reaction that required hospitalization. I didn't feel good about giving him his boosters, infact, he was behind-but I felt pressured by the school nurse. I guess it's just that feeling you get in the pit of your stomach that you need to listen to. I think God gave us moms a special gift that we ignore far to often.
Jennifer