I think you are a great friend and just stick by her, no matter what. Just sitting together and reading together will help her. I wish I had a friend like this. I happen to be the one that people expect to be strong and they lean on me. I have no one to lean on, but if I had a friend like you, I would be in heaven. You will help her get through this, by reading and researching and finding a good doctor. The child needs help and the antibiotic treatments are the beginning. Ask about support supplements and always ask what potential side effects or interactions can occur. Don't let anyone tell her, that her kid is going through some silly phase. She is the mom and moms know best and know their kids better than anyone else. Do not let her get discouraged by doctors that just want to dismiss it as all neurological. Every thing I have read shows that with the correct treatment, the children get better. Some take longer. Just read, read, read and be there for her.
God bless you.
I have to say that I am 49 and was born here, to Muslim parents and I am an American Muslim. Our faith does tell us that there is a cure for everything god gives, except death, and it is up to us to find it. So we all must believe that God gives us only what we can handle. You are all special parents out there in this forum and we can support each other by staying in touch through this forum. We will all get through this and share the day when we can say our children have recovered. Together!
Sue