Hi everyone,
I am really hoping to get some advice as I am concerned and confused. My 7 year old son, for the last year, has been experiencing some tics on and off. I first noticed an eye "stretching" as he would call it. This was last year. I took him to our pediatrician and she felt it was due to allergies. She confirmed that he had allergic rhinitis which she said was a finding that he always shows clinically. At this time, he was also experiencing very loud and obstructive snoring which ultimately lead to a tonsillectomy last summer. Clearly, he has seasonal allergies and always has. He also had a dairy allergy as an infant and I nursed him exclusively for over one year (with dairy removed from my diet).
At the time he was being evaluated for his tonsillectomy (last summer) I also mentioned to the ENT the eye rolling/stretching behavior and while he agreed that it may possibly have been related to allergies, he felt it was a "tic" but that it was normal at this age and would disappear. Coincidentally, it completely disappeared after that. Around the time school started up, it reappeared briefly. Next, he had a neck stretching type behavior that initially began from his back pack hurting him. It took on a life of it's own and became a tic. That disappeared and was replaced by a throat clearing sound that lasted a little less than a week. That was about 2 months ago. He has been tic free until now.
Two weeks ago, he noticed a molar growing in and it was covered in part by his gum. This started irritating him and he started opening his mouth really wide. Just like the past, this behavior took on a life of it's own and became a tic lasting a week. It disappeared completely and was replaced a day later with our current issue. The throat clearing noise which sounds almost like he's losing his breath or making a high pitch inhale.
He had a well check with our pediatrician a few weeks ago and although he wasn't doing any of these things at the time, I did mention my prior concerns to her. We have been seeing her for 10 years and she has known my son since birth. She is also very young and up on current research. She is brilliant. Anyway, she said that she still feels that my sons behaviors are triggered by allergies. Like, allergies are irritating his eyes and causing the need to roll/stretch them. She feels that they then take on an addictive type quality for him and he has to, in her words, "work them out" by working through these tics. She said that unless he personally is bothered or having issues at school with people pointing them out, his teacher, etc, that i do not need to do much about them except to ignore them and not draw attention to them. She is also big on a healthy diet, limited screen time, etc.
So, now I am seeing this everyday and totally freaking out. I am so worried about him. I really felt these were benign childhood tics as he only has one at a time and long periods with nothing. I also notice that his behavior is more "hyper" when the tics are present. He does not have ADHD by any means or OCD. He is super smart, sensitive, loving and just a great happy boy. He is so happy and care free. He doesn't exhibit nervous or anxious behaviors. He doesn't have trouble learning. All of these things make me think that something is causing this. He doesn't seem to fit the stereotypical Tourette's diagnosis so I'm not sure where to go with this. We did let him have a lot of time on the iPad this past 2 weeks and my husband feels that they are correlated. As if this wasn't stressful enough, he is the pickiest eater I have ever met and eats very few foods. Our pediatrician has, at this point, recommended "feeding therapy" as his pickiness is beyond normal.
I would love any advice. I am so worried. I am worried that this will be too much for him and his fun loving spirit will be broken down if anyone makes fun of him or if he is embarrassed. I have read the statistics on depression and TD and it scares me. He is the happiest most fun loving kid in the world and I never want that to change. I just don't know where to begin. I am not sure if I should just take him to a neuro or ride this out. I'm also an RN so I have a hard time balancing the medical and natural aspects of care. I would just love a starting point….testing, supplements, etc.
Sorry this is so long. Thanks for reading if you got this far!