Hi guys,
I just wanted to say thanks for all the information and encouraging words...I will go back to my doctor and explain to him all I have learned and make sure he refers me to a neurologist...Cheri I also want to thank you for you personal feelings...After reading what you wrote about your son and husband I felt a sense of calm..I know I will still have anxiety when I see Malik shake his head but at least I know that one day it'll be unnoticeable...I especially love when you said, "My husband and son are both wonderful, loving and compassionate people who have very high IQ, are top achievers, multiple talented, and most certainly live full and productive lives....they just happen to tic.
I learned a number of years ago that their tics are part of them and, where I do my part to provide them both with a diet, supplements and an environment that helps to keep their tics from interfering with their lives........
yet they tic. Period. It doesn’t define them, but it is a part of who they are. And I and they and our family and friends not only accept that....we barely notice it, and in fact some of their tics are endearing aspects of them!" Those words were very comforting to me...
Yesterday, was the first time I saw my son tic through out the day..It started in the afternoon and it happen in intervals until bedtime.. By the end of the day he was able to tic in front of me without feeling self-conscious.....Malik tics are mild and I know they can get worst but I feel my anxiety will pass and I'll be able to deal with it better without hiding in the bathroom and crying...I guess it's harder on me because I'm a single mom but I do have great family and friends who will support us in anyway..
I have a question about the vocal tics..I'm not sure what to look for..My son does make noise and now that I know he has tics how can I weed out a vocal tic?
Thanks again,
Jackie