LLM -- since you keep your advice to us catalogued and organized. . . do you remember advice you wrote about a change in speaking to your ds's teachers -- that they would notice how they spoke to him and how they felt about his actions better than discussing what/how you son is in beginning an exacerbation?
I remember the jist - which is, like always, priceless -- but I was hoping to find the post so I could steal your eloquence. do you at all remember maybe when it was that you were thinking that -- maybe I could search for it if I had a timeframe.
thanks!!