1st...I would gather all the literature you can (actually print them out)...including, if you can get it, the information from the symposium on post-infectious syndromes in Texas last week. I am completely fed up with these doctors who somehow have their own hidden agendas, and think they know everything when, in reality they know less than nothing. Hand her the stack (it will be huge) Give her a list of doctors to call: Swedo from the NIMH, Cunningham, Lecker, Lipkin, Noel Rose from John's Hopkins, (get all the names from the conference brochure last week.) Finally, I would tell her she is ignorant, and breaking her code of "first do no harm!" Then drop her (I took my DS to a neurologist earlier in the year. His fellow came in first,and when DS told her he had PANDAS...he's 18, so I was letting him speak for himself...she started giving me the same thing. I don't take that ***XX*** anymore, and cut her off. At the end of the appointment...he was there, because of tremors...she asked if I would like her opinion on PANDAS, and I told her "no." She tried anyway, and I told her: "I didn't ask you,and your very ignorant on a subject you know nothing about. Now, if you'd like, I'd be happy to send you all the literature and proof that exists from some of the top doctors and research facilities in the country," and we walked out. Made me feel great!
OK...now that I can get off my soapbox. There are doctors in the northeast, but you are going to have to travel. There's a list at the beginning of this thread, and if you PM me, I can give you names. But, there really are only a handful of docs who treat this. Personally, everytime something new comes up, I keep forwarding all the new documentation to all the docs in my past who either adamently denied it existed or who really just knew nothing about it. You might want to start doing that with the docs you've seen.s