Thank you everyone for the replies. It has been an especially difficult time with my daughter over the past week; I am not sure why, but she has been truly defiant and rotten, for lack of a better word. She also will start to cry and say "I feel sick, Mommy," and this just breaks my heart because she clearly IS sick.
LLM - I am actually in NY, but my screen name is "Connticks" because it was Connecticut ticks that gave me Lyme and coinfections many years ago (and I passed these on to my kids). My LLMD is wonderful but she is very careful with prescriptions because she treats kids with lyme much like Dr. J does, and she has had red flags go up several times with the insurance companies for how she treated lyme patients. It is horrible how these doctors cannot treat patients properly without fear of losing their licenses.
I do believe my daughter has Bartonella also as I know her symptoms match with bart, and she has had skin rashes randomly and bart "streaks" in the past.
Thank you for your help, I really can't tell you how helpful it was.