Hello all. Wow, it's comforting to find so many people share the same task I have just been dealt. After 5 years of denying my son's small tics, I have finally confirmed there is a problem. He is 12 now. The small tics (grunting, sniffing, tapping, throat clearing, hopping, etc..) would go away throughout the years as quickly as they would appear. They were soon replaced by another that we would all overlook. I really believed he could control them up until this point. He is incredibly bright (last report card was all 100's with one 94). He started 6th grade this year with his normal little tics that obviously were suppressed while in school.
For some crazy reason, within the last week, our family has been blown away by the increase in tics which undeniably at this point is beyond his control. As of last week he began changing the pitch in his voice while in casual conversation to shouting. And every few minutes, shouting for no apparent reason. He is even shouting something sounding very similar to "fuckju." My heart is breaking for him, and he is so frustrated. I even recieved a call from his teacher and it appears to be happening at school in moderation. He has had such a great self esteem up until this point, and I don't want that to be tarnished by how cruel middle school can be.
I think it has been magnified by a few recent events that have triggered what has been there for the last five years. He is a little stressed out with the usual school stuff. I got married two weeks ago, which was a happy event, but still stressful for everyone. He gained a step father around the same time his dad seems to be "too busy" all of the time. I'm sure he is a little confused.
The most unusual and probably significant factor might be his latest doctor's visit. Exactly one week ago I took him to the doctor to be treated for a viral infection and a congested cough. I also spoke with the doctor about a Neurologist referal due to the recent profanity resembling outburst. The doctor put him on amoxicilan (I don't know if I spelled that right.) Within the evening the shouting went from 0 to 60. I know it has something to do with the antibiotics. I have stopped them, and am waiting for it to get a little better. I refuse to put him on medication that sedates him and just covers the problem.
Where did you all start. Thanks for listening.
Mom on a mission