Cobbiemommy,
You said to keep my son on antibiotics as long as he needs them-how will I know? I have a feeling that my son was exposed/had strep again last Fall as I had taken him in to his pediatrition because he was complaining of a sore throat-he tested negative for strep so didn't receive antibiotics. I ended up pulling him out of school in February to home school him things got so bad. I have a sister in her forties who STILL gets strep throat! Another issue that we have been struggling with lately is the constant soiling of my son's underwear. We're not talking a minor laundry inconvenience here-it smells ungodly! I treat his undershorts and pants with prewash and wash them, sometimes twice, and there is still a smell. (sorry if TMI, I am a nurse so am used to such conversation). Last night out of frustration I was knocking on the bathroom door (while he is preparing for his second shower of the day) begging my 13 year old man/child to let me in so I could SHOW him how to clean his bum (his dad refused). I have asked him if it is a fear of contamination issue (which he denies), but he refuses to use a washcloth. As near as I can get out of him, he isn't really cleaning himself back there at all. I have tried explaining to him that if he gets himself clean after bm, he shouldn't have to worry about "ruining a washcloth". Today I bought flushable wipes (which he refused before because "they're wet"). I have disposable gloves-should I offer them to him??? I have told him that if he doesn't let me know what is going on so we can fix this problem (he is ruining furniture and I don't want kids at school making fun of him), he will have to discuss it with and be examined by the doctor. Any suggestions? He says he isn't sore or raw, I don't know how he can't be. I read in an older post that sometimes strep can colonize the anal area-wouldn't he have discomfort?