I've read majority of the replies on this and I must say I so respect what everyone has gone through and what everyone is trying to do to cope with this terrible thing. I'm not sure if anyone has tried to look at this from a religious stand point. Here's a real awesome quote from Prophet from long ago that still applies today. Just to give a little back ground on this it's the Lord speaking (need I say more?): "And if men come unto me, I will show unto them their weaknesses, I give unto men weakness that they may be humble, for my grace is sufficient for ALL men that humble themselves before me, for if they humble themselves before me, and have FAITH in me.... THEN WILL I MAKE WEAK THINGS BECOME STRONG UNTO THEM!"
In a nutshell, we all have struggles that we all must face personally and overcome. But remember my friends, you are never alone. The Lord tells us that we all have weaknesses so we can be humble. But he also gives us the amazing promise that if we trust and have faith, then he'll make weak things become our STRENGTHS! I so testify that this is true. I feel a sort of connection with you all as I have had a life long battle with this problem. My sincerest love and empathy go out to all of you that have this.
