Reply to TOASTER 82
I have OCD. I have just been diagnosed at 30, almost 31. I was almost at my wits end tonight when I googled ruined relationships and I saw your post. I signed on to this form and her I am typing you. I know that might sound sad, but I don't care. I am so happy to hear there are people out there like me who understand what I am going through. I could have cried out of joy when I found this site. I am in a commonlay relationship with a man, we have a 1 year old son (born Christmas Morning) and my partner keeps threatning to leave me, he can not handle me. I have told him about the OCD, but he doesn't understand, as anyone who doens't have OCD couldn't. I wish he could see this form and finally have empathy to know that people out there, just like me exist. Our problem, is many, but one of the main is he hates the questions...of course they coime natural to me, and everyone who knows me for 15 years or more would say I am a "curious george" My questions to me are not insuating, but to him he feels just asking how your day is, was, etc...is much more...like getting drilled! I want to better the situation, before I loose the love of my life...It might be too late, which I really hope it isn't. We have a son, and I am with him24 hours a day. He is the love of my life, and I want to be better for him as well...
