I am not the victim but my partner so claims he is.
I am having difficulties coping up because he always refers to his OCD for any odd behavior he does.
Before I used to get enough attention from him and I feel really cared for. However, recently, I feel abandoned and needed only when he feels like it (so it seems). Also, there are times when he shows genuine affection and then there are times (especially after being together for a day and giving into his sexual desires) when he becomes passive and never makes you feel wanted.
Is this really the reality with OCD?
I am getting so jaded. I so wanted to give up.
