Thank you for that advice. I think DNA testing is just what we'll do. Digging through posts has made me think she may have Lyme. She got bit about three years ago, but I thought it was ok because I did daily tick checks and found the tick the same day (stuck, though). But now I wonder? She has been fighting H pylori these past eight months, but we mostly have that licked with two months of mastic gum. She refuses any meds or supplements so I have to slip them into her food. Mastic gum wasn't easy with its powerful flavor but ketchup and mustard, raspberry jam are all great. I just don't know what supplements to give her. I've given B12 mostly. I really haven't tried anything else.
I am so shell shocked after these past horrible months that I fight daily to keep my cool about what could happen. I just sort of accept the OCD now, compared to the unbelievable horror of rage and opposition that we faced, but I don't want her to get too comfortable with it. It has been toned down though, so that's good. I can't begin to express how it feels to know that there are people who understand and have been through or are going through the same things. It helps so much when you feel like this and are haunted by nightmares and horrifying memories as well as the day-to-day struggle that goes on even when you start to recover. Sure is nice to know that people here understand.
We certainly didn't get any help from any medical professionals around here. They insisted on giving her the stool test for H Pylori at the same time as she was taking the Prilosec they ordered (with huge side effects that practically destroyed her). When I told them it would throw a false negative and could she please take the blood test, they told me to consult the Internet less and a real MD more. Of course it came back negative ironically with a note on it from the testing lab that said if the patient is on a PPI, the test could come back falsely negative. We had to order the GI effects test ourselves, which lit up, and then the gastroenterologist scoffed at us for giving her mastic rather than the triple bullet he tried to give her. And then my daughter's regular Nurse Practitioner called CPS because we would not give her Prozac or put her in the juvenile mental ward when she ordered us to. Really helped having to deal with all that in the midst of a huge PANS explosion. CPS dropped it after three months, but the whole thing practically buried us.
I've read on these forums about Dr. K's willingness to treat over long distance. I wish I had read that six months ago. I literally felt like there was no one who could possibly help us.
I definitely think finding the genetic missing links is the answer. And after reading on these forums, I'm getting her checked for tick-borne illnesses, which not one medical professional has ever suggested in the past year and a half. I want her to sleep in her bed, go to school, go anywhere in the house without being afraid.