My 8 yr old takes hours in the morning to get ready for school which she is usually late. If her collar is not right she takes it off until it is, and she has velcro trainers if they are not fastened exactly in the right place you can hear them being fastened over and over again.
She comes in from school eating her packed lunch on the way home. Then nothing but insults 'freak' 'i hate you' 'get a life' as soon as she comes through the door. She then sits watching cable till after midnight and is obviously tired when its time to get up.
Is she suffering from either or is she very badly behaved