How can I tell if what is happening to my son is just the onset of OCD or I should be concerned about more. This has been going on for about 7 weeks.
I am concerned. I just don't know if I should be. I'm sorry for the length. I would so appreciate it if anyone can give an opinion.
1. He's 8 ADHD and mildly autistic with an onset of OCD symptoms about 7 weeks ago. It got worse in the past two weeks. At this point it's constant much of the time in the day many days (is poison in his mouth, spitting/wiping out poison, asking me if he's breathing, checking his breathing, begging me to call a doctor, and on.) Worse even are some of the nights. He isn't sleeping much at all on the bad nights--waking us constantly to ask if there might be poison in his mouth or to tell us he might not be breathing, staying awake so he doesn't die, and on.
2. We have moved. The onset was two weeks prior to the move. So there was stress.
3. There is a family history of OCD and in fact I have it myself. I feel I would recognize it in my children and, while I've seen anxiety in this child, I've never seen OCD in him.
4. He's had a spitting/wiping his face habit for quite a long time. He never indicated a fear of poison or reason for the wiping. But that was there prior to talking about poison. My son is very clear that he just started worrying about dying/poison/OCD stuff two weeks before we moved (that's when I saw it too). He says he never worried about that stuff before then.
5. I want to mention that my son seemed to suddenly develop ADHD right after his 6th birthday. It was so dramatic a change I consulted his pediatrician. I did not see OCD at that time. I think I remember a short phase where he was afraid he might get run over or a car might hit the house. He also has times when he pees very large amounts of clear urine frequently (like every 15 to 30 minutes) during the day but never at night. This might go on for a days or a week and then go back to normal. This has been going on periodically for that long as well.
6. The OCD started and two weeks later we moved. At that time he started repeating his last words (go to the park...park...park) which is strange and not normal for him but, again, he's spectrumy. I thought maybe because we lapsed on probiotics during the move or stress of it. The emotional melt down (irrational and extreme but not OCD related) got worse and more pervasive. Again, I assumed it was the move and it could have been.
7. He had some vomiting two weeks ago and this week a very strange rash. In the last two weeks the OCD has gotten extremely severe. He's constantly asking about poison (in his food, on his mouth, etc.) wiping his face/spitting the poison, melting down begging me to call a doctor to save his life, checking to see if he's breathing, and on. Worse even is it's affecting his sleep many nights. He's afraid he'll die in his sleep. He wakes us constantly. I'm just beside myself.
I will say I still see my son. Outside of the OCD he's still his old self.
Is this the way pediatric OCD looks at onset or does it sound like more?