amarland

my 9 year old has pans and i do not know what to do my wife can not work because she has to stay at home with him we have 2 other kids so when she has to take him to the hospital or the dr. i have to take off work to watch the other 2 kids so i can not keep a job. we do not have much support to help so it feels like we are on our own my question for anyone that will answer is how does any one make it in life.