Interesting comments, I can see how me worrying about him dealing with a situation could add to his situation. I, and I'm sure all of you only want to help when your child is not doing well. But I'm sure my son know when I sence he's not doing well, which is probably stessing him out. I remember when I was at his age, and wanted my parents to be proud, not that we're not, but his preception could be that. Thanks for Everyone's comments, for me that have really helped me a lot. I was a bit of a "basket case" when my sons tics/tourettes waxed to the point that we felt he needed help to deal with them. It's great to have a place to get this kind of support.